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Spc. Ashley Sietsema

December 1, 2007 at 9:50 pm · Filed under Mother's Day Project and tagged: female Coalition casualty, Iraq War

Ashley Sietsema, 20, a member of the Illinois Army National Guard serving Operation Iraqi Freedom, died November 12th in Kuwait City. She died of injuries suffered in a one vehicle crash when the ambulance she was driving overturned.

Her life was full of promise, her family and friends said. She married Max Sietsema in April. She had been enrolled at Northern Illinois University prior to being deployed, and hoped to become a nurse.

Ashley Sietsema is the 100th female Coalition soldier to die as a result of serving in Operation Iraqi Freedom.

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jennifer wrote @ February 11, 2008 at 6:10 am

I am so sorry for your loss. She still had her whole life ahead of her. I am a registered nurse in an emergency room. I have so much respect for paramedics and ambulance medics, they are the ones who are really on the front lines and often make all the difference in a patient’s outcome. I have 2 little ones, I can not imagine losing my daughter. God Speed.

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Origins of The Mother's Day Project

Ravensbruck concentration camp memorial

This description of The Mother's Day Project's beginnings was written in early May, 2007. Since that time, more female Coalition members have been killed in Iraq and their names have been added to the work taken on by more than 160 individual stitchers.

We wll continue this project, this endeavor to awaken our sensibilities to the reality of war and the lives lost in Iraq - the soldiers, the women, the men, the Iraqis, the children and all its victims - until this war has ended.

A few years back, I visited four concentration camps in Poland and Germany in the course of a single week. I don't recommend this sort of punishing travel experience for just anyone, but I did it for a good reason and I'm glad that I did.

There was one camp, though, that haunts me still and at regular intervals: Ravensbruck.

It was a camp for women and children, like women and children don't already suffer enough during times of war. Hell, even in times of peace. And, here's what moved me the most - a simple display of the camp's survivors who, in their ordinariness, revealed more devastatingly than any tribute or memorial could about the extent of what was lost to so many others. Women as mothers, wives, friends, grandmothers. Women in their gardens. Women smiling at the camera, waving on a summer day. Extraordinary women doing ordinary things, in ordinary ways, remarkable because they - unlike so many others - walked out of Ravensbruck alive.

As another Mother's Day nears, I started wondering how many women soldiers have lost their lives in Iraq? How many mothers, wives, lovers? How many women who would have been mothers, wives, lovers, friends?

As of today, the answer to how many female soldiers have died in Iraq since the beginning of the war is 79. I know their names.

Here is my idea for The Mother's Day Project. You know the sort of fiber-arts work I've been doing lately. I would like to make a tote bag and incorporate the names of these soldiers. I want to hand-stitch the names on muslin fabric, but I'd like to have many different hands contributing to the stitching. I need volunteers.

I don't care one whit how accomplished you are with a needle. Anything goes as long as the name is readable. I will provide the names (pre-stamped so you simply outline the letters with stitching) and the fabric and, if you need help with the return postage, I'll even take care of that detail. Once I have all the stitched names, I'll assemble the tote.

Why a tote? Because I want something utilitarian. Something that will go out into the world every day as a reminder of this horrible loss, made more horrible as people recognize that these names represent only a very small portion of the human toll this war has taken. And, for every volunteer who contributes a stitched name, I will send the tote to you. Put it to use. Take it to the market, keep it in your mini-van as you drive your kids to school. Stuff it with your knitting. A week. Two. Whatever seems right to you.

All I ask in return is that you keep sending the tote on, and that you record your feelings and experiences with the project on your blog (if you have one) or in a letter.

Obviously, this project will not be completed by Mother's Day, 2007. That's OK. If you would like to participate, send your contact information to mothersdayproject (at) sbcglobal (dot) net.
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